Am i bi-curious or gay? need help?

I can't decide which it is with men. I do think i'm aromantic aual, but I'm getting these strange vibes and i think i found a lupol(hope you know what word i'm trying to use). I get s from men. However, i think i understand now. When I was bi-curious with girls, i got s. However, after a few dates, and dealing with a few crushes (the girls had ones on me, by the way), the s stopped, probably because i had enough experience with girls then to say i don't like them. Now, it's happening with men. Only now, i think my body is telling me "You're too young to say you're aromantic or aual because you haven't had enough experience with BOTH es yet. We're sending you s to shoot up your curiousity factor with men like we did with women. Go on a few dates, experience a few crushes from other men, then decide whether you're gay or aual". what do you guys think? Bi-curious or gay?